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A tarot reading can often feel like a mystical tango between you and the cosmos, but the effectiveness of this cosmic dance depends on the quality of your questions. What you ask matters—and no, not in the sense of, “Will I ever get that lifelong supply of chocolate I’ve been dreaming about?” Instead, the questions you ask should provide insight, provoke introspection, and promote personal growth.
Tarot reader extraordinaire, Theresa Reed, said it best: “Tarot is not about revealing a predetermined destiny, but helping to forge the destiny you want through introspection and action.”
With this in mind, let’s shuffle through the deck of best question styles to ask during a tarot reading, making sure your next reading is an ace!
Favor the Open-Ended, Not the Closed-Off
When it comes to asking questions in a tarot reading, it’s best to be as open as a book and not as closed as a… well, closed book. Open-ended questions encourage expansive answers. They invite the cards to tell a story, not just a sentence.
For example, asking “How can I improve my relationship with my partner?” beats “Does my partner love me?” faster than a rabbit beats a turtle in a footrace. It provides more depth, more scope, and more potential for actionable advice.
Choose Clarity Over Confusion
Aim for precision, not perplexity, when phrasing your question. Tarot cards are like dedicated detectives—they’ll search for answers but they need a clear case to crack. “What should I focus on to achieve my career goals?” is a clearer ask than “What’s up with my job?”
Precision pushes you to think about what you really want to know, which in turn helps the tarot reader and the cards provide the insight you’re seeking.
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Focus on the Self, Not the Others
Tarot is a tool for self-improvement and introspection, so your questions should be a little selfish—and that’s okay! Asking about your actions, reactions, and possibilities, instead of probing into other people’s lives, makes for a meaningful reading.
Asking “How can I better communicate with my boss?” instead of “What does my boss think about me?” puts the power back in your hands. Remember, you’re the magician of your own life, not the Hermit peeking into others’ lives!
Choose the Actionable, Not the Inevitable
Ask questions that lead to actionable insights, not inevitable outcomes. Remember, tarot isn’t a crystal ball or an episode of “Final Destination”. It’s a roadmap, not a rollercoaster.
So instead of asking, “Will I be successful in my new venture?“, try asking, “What steps can I take to ensure success in my new venture?” It may not give you a sneak peek at your Forbes feature, but it can guide you on how to get there.
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Embrace the Exploration, Not the Expectation
Lastly, approach your tarot reading with an explorer’s curiosity, not an anxious anticipation. Release any rigid outcomes you have in mind, and let the cards guide you to unexpected territories.
Who knows? You might ask, “What should I be mindful of in my spiritual growth?” and the cards could highlight an area you’ve never considered. Embrace the unexpected—it’s like discovering an unwatched season of your favorite show!
In the grand theatre of tarot, the spotlight is on self-reflection, personal growth, and actionable insights. So don your explorer’s hat, pack your curiosity, and remember: it’s not about the destination (or the chocolate!), but the journey.
With these tips in your tarot toolkit, you’re set to frame fantastic, insightful, and empowering questions for your next reading. It’s time to pull back the cosmic curtain and see what the cards have to say!
As the famous tarot author, Sasha Graham, once said, “In tarot, we are not beholden to the fates. Our future is very much in our hands.” Now go forth, fearless inquirers, and may your tarot questions guide you towards your best self.
Remember: the cards are ready to talk, but they need your questions to start the conversation. Happy shuffling!
Here are 50 of the best open-ended questions:
Career:
1. What skills should I develop to advance in my career?
2. How can I increase my job satisfaction?
3. What steps can I take to achieve my career goals?
4. How can I balance my work and personal life better?
5. What can I learn from my current job challenges?
6. How can I foster better relationships with my colleagues?
7. What am I most proud of in my career and how can I build upon that?
8. How can I improve my productivity at work?
9. In what areas do I need to gain more experience or knowledge?
10. What does success look like in my current role and how can I achieve it?
Relationships:
11. How can I improve communication in my relationship?
12. What can I do to deepen my friendships?
13. How can I contribute more to my family dynamics?
14. What can I learn from past relationships?
15. How can I be more open to giving and receiving love?
16. How can I foster more understanding in my relationship with my partner?
17. What can I do to strengthen my bond with my children?
18. How can I let go of old resentments and move forward?
19. What qualities should I look for in a potential partner?
20. How can I cultivate more compassion in my interactions with others?
Health:
21. What steps can I take to improve my overall health?
22. How can I make exercise a regular part of my life?
23. What dietary changes can benefit my well-being?
24. How can I better manage stress in my life?
25. What habits should I adopt to improve my mental health?
26. How can I incorporate more restful sleep into my routine?
27. What lifestyle changes can I make to support my health goals?
28. How can I create a healthier work-life balance?
29. What strategies can help me cope with chronic illness or pain?
30. How can I cultivate a more positive body image?
Life:
31. What does a fulfilled life look like to me?
32. How can I become more aligned with my values?
33. What can I learn from my past mistakes?
34. How can I handle uncertainty or change in my life better?
35. What steps can I take to achieve my personal goals?
36. How can I cultivate more gratitude in my daily life?
37. What can I do to improve my financial stability?
38. How can I contribute more to my community or causes I care about?
39. What do I need to do to find more personal happiness?
40. How can I better embrace self-love and acceptance?
Bonus Questions:
41. What kind of person do I want to become in the next five years?
42. How can I encourage more creativity in my life?
43. What can I do to feel more fulfilled and satisfied with my daily routine?
44. How can I better manage my time and priorities?
45. What can I do to be more present and mindful in my daily life?
46. How can I foster a stronger connection with nature?
47. What can I do to become a lifelong learner?
48. How can I become more resilient to life’s ups and downs?
49. What steps can I take to live more authentically?
50. How can I develop a growth mindset?
Remember, these questions are meant to inspire reflection and self-discovery. They are not meant to be stress-inducing or overwhelming.
Start with the questions that resonate with you most and take it from there!