7 Ways Tarot Elevates Decision-Making and Transforms Your Life

If you’re an experienced tarot reader, you’ll find some card combinations here that you might not have thought of before, or perhaps ones you know well, but framed in a way that sparks a new take. And if you’re someone navigating life with uncertainty, this will show you what you can actually look forward to when you sit with an experienced reader who knows how to go deeper than surface predictions.

Now, let me clear up a common misconception. Many people come to a reading expecting a tarot reader to know everything, to see all, know all, and hand over absolute answers (could you imagine, how exhausting!)

Sometimes in a reading, I’ll see or even hear (I’m currently strengthening my clairaudience) initials, exact names, professions, family dynamics, or very specific scenarios.

But will I know the cause of a mystery health condition? Likely not. That falls into the domain of a medical intuitive, which is a rare specialty. One medical intuitive expert I often recommend to clients for such insights is Brough Perkins.

Another misconception is around exact outcomes.

The truth is: a reading shows patterns and possibilities, not rigid destinies. Often the power of tarot comes from hearing out loud what you already knew but were second-guessing.

The best way to work with any reading is to listen back afterward, you’ll often catch insights you missed in the moment.

Because let’s be real…many people have had a reading that left them with more questions than answers. A good tarot session isn’t about theatrics or fortune-telling; it’s about clarity, perspective, and courage to face what’s in front of you.

If you’re grieving, searching, or just trying to make sense of life’s crossroads, keep reading. By the end, you’ll know what separates a reading that changes nothing from one that helps you change your life.

7. Breaking Free from Old Patterns

Maybe you keep dating people who drain you, or you start fresh jobs only to find yourself right back at burnout. It’s easy to blame “bad luck,” but when the Devil appears alongside the Eight of Swords, tarot shows that what looks like chance is actually a cycle replaying itself.

Feeling stuck in the same cycle over and over? This is where things shift.

And this isn’t just about relationships or work. It can also point to addictive patterns, habits or escapes that once soothed you but have since become isolating. When this combination shows up, it often calls for bravery: the courage to step out of the comfort of what’s familiar, even if it feels terrifying, and move toward freedom.

For those of you who read the cards to: Many overlook this pairing as “toxic attachments” only. I find it’s often more about the fear of naming the attachment itself.

A surface-level reading might just tell you “watch out for toxic people.” But a great reading puts words to your repeating story, naming it as a pattern you can finally break. If this resonates, you might also appreciate my piece on navigating heartbreak and breaking free of cycles.

6. Tuning into Timing

Grief often tricks us into urgency, we feel we must make a big move now, or we’ll never escape the ache. But the cards can show whether it’s the right moment to leap or the right moment to breathe. When the Seven of Pentacles and Temperance appear, it’s not a “no”, it’s a “not yet.” On the other hand, the Ace of Wands with the Chariot signals: momentum is real, trust it.

Wondering if it’s the right time to leap? Keep reading, this part might surprise you!

And let me be clear: I do not, and will not, cater to urgency in my practice. The only emergency bookings I ever take are to put remote viewing skills into practice when someone, or someone’s beloved animal, is missing. That’s different. But when it comes to personal decisions, urgency usually comes from fear, and dependency on a reader will only keep you stuck. The truth is, if you feel desperate to have an answer right now, it’s probably the exact moment when patience will serve you better.

Insider reading note: context matters, pull the Seven of Pentacles next to a Wand court and patience suddenly looks more like a pause before ignition than a standstill.

A weak reading might only predict “something will happen soon.” A strong one helps you understand timing as an ally rather than a curse. For a deeper dive into how tarot fits into everyday choices, see using tarot in daily decision-making.

5. Validating Intuition

You’ve felt that whisper before: don’t take the call, don’t say yes, don’t ignore the pull. But most of us override it, fearing we’re “too emotional” or “making it up.” The High Priestess paired with the Two of Swords often confirms what you already know inside but haven’t trusted.

Ever wished you could trust your gut without second-guessing? This is how.

A note for my fellow readers: when the High Priestess falls reversed with this combo, I often interpret it as intuition being distorted by projection, not silence, but static.

Tarot doesn’t create intuition, it validates it. Poor readings force you to rely on the reader’s authority. Great readings hand your own authority back to you. For more on strengthening this side of yourself, check out practical ways to enhance intuition and this Harvard Business Review article on trusting your gut.

4. Making Peace with Uncertainty

When loss leaves you standing in the fog, you want answers, any answers. But quick, absolute predictions often give false comfort. A meaningful tarot reading won’t erase uncertainty; it reframes it. When the Moon meets the Hermit, it’s about finding a lantern, not a floodlight.

If uncertainty keeps you awake at night, this part’s written for you.

If you read yourself, here’s a nuance: I like watching where the Hermit’s lantern points in spreads, sometimes it illuminates a card three places over, shaping how you read uncertainty.

Shallow readings try to eliminate ambiguity. Great ones give you tools to navigate it, transforming panic into perspective. You can also learn how uncertainty affects mental health. And if you’re curious, I’ve also written about what makes the best tarot readings so transformative.

3. Untangling Emotional Overload

You know the moments when grief blindsides you, your chest feels heavy, tears come without warning, and decisions feel impossible. When the Three of Swords and Five of Cups show up, tarot validates that pain instead of dismissing it. Pair it with the Star, and you see healing already woven into your path.

Overthinking? Too many feelings at once? Here’s how clarity lands.

Reader tip: don’t forget the pacing here, reading the Star immediately after the Five of Cups can soften the blow and prevent overwhelm.

A shallow reading might minimize feelings, brushing them off as “negativity.” But a real reading makes room for your emotions while showing where they don’t have to control you. For more support, see resources on grief and resilience or read my own reflections on why grief isn’t linear. You might also find value in David Kessler’s work on grief, one of the leading voices in the field.

2. Expanding Possibilities

When your world shrinks after loss, it’s easy to think you only have two choices: stay stuck or make a drastic leap. But the Two of Wands and Seven of Cups show that more options exist than you’ve considered. With the Wheel of Fortune, you realize life isn’t as narrow as it feels right now.

This is where clients say, “I didn’t even know that was possible.”

Something seasoned readers notice: I often note how the Two of Wands figure stares at the globe, paired with the Wheel, it’s not just new options, it’s a shift in worldview entirely!

Weak readings box you into yes/no thinking. Great readings open doors you didn’t even know existed. You might enjoy this guide to expanding perspective. Or, if you’d rather see how tarot itself broadens perspective, take a look at insights from an internationally acclaimed tarot reader.

1. Reclaiming Personal Power

Here’s the twist most don’t expect: tarot isn’t about surrendering your life to fate, it’s about reclaiming your role as the author. The Magician with Strength emphasizes that you’re not powerless, even when life has knocked you down.

Most surprising of all? Tarot doesn’t take away your power, it returns it.

For fellow readers looking deeper: if Strength shows up reversed with the Magician, I’ll often highlight the misuse of willpower, control versus empowerment. A nuance many clients need to hear.

Poor readings make you dependent on the reader. Strong readings remind you that you hold the pen. You are not just surviving the chapter, you’re writing the next one. For a deeper perspective on this, you might enjoy my article on the true power of tarot and this thoughtful piece from Tiny Buddha on reclaiming personal power.

Closing Reflection

If you’ve kept reading, thank you, I stay up way past my bed time pouring my heart into writing these articles, and now you’ve seen how tarot isn’t about fortune-telling or empty reassurance.

It’s about recognizing patterns, clarifying timing, validating intuition, holding uncertainty, making peace with emotions, widening options, and reclaiming your power. That’s the difference between a reading that changes nothing and one that changes you.

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And for my fellow cartomancers, if one of these card pairings landed differently for you, or you’ve discovered your own nuance, I’d love to hear it. Share your perspective. After all, we’re always learning from each other, too.

And if you’ve never experienced a professional online tarot reading before, here’s your cheeky nudge: I do my absolute best for every client, every time. Go ahead, book the session. You might just walk away lighter than when you arrived.

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3 Powerful Affirmations to Say Aloud for Empowered Decision-Making

• I trust the signals my body and spirit are giving me.

• Every choice I make is part of my unfolding path.

• I have the strength to choose what aligns with me now.

  I love working with affirmations because they’re more than just nice words, they actually rewire the way we think. In psychology, affirmations have even been used to help people quit smoking by building new patterns in the brain. Which is essentially what a great psychic reading should assist you with through unbiased paranormal means.

We are what we tell ourselves, we think therefore we are.

That’s why I often ask if you’d like to include them at the end of a reading. Below, you’ll find a 12 Minute Guided Meditation I recorded that’s full of positive affirmations to ease your mind and help you rest in reassurance. Ideal for a stressful work day lunch time (it’s what got me through days that felt like drowning)

As one of the most trusted tarot readers in Canada, I’ve built my reputation on offering accurate, compassionate, and empowering online tarot readings to clients around the world. My work combines years of experience as a psychic medium with a deep commitment to integrity, making every session a powerful tool for clarity, healing, and transformation. Whether you’re seeking a life path tarot reading, navigating grief, or simply ready to step into your next chapter, you deserve guidance from the best tarot reader in the world. Book your online tarot session today and experience why so many clients worldwide trust me with their most important questions.